Chlong Reoun will be celebrating her 84th birthday this year!

Chlong Reuon married her husband, Chea Reth sometime in the 1960s and the couple  had nine children. The family lived in the countryside and worked as rice farmers, fished and sold vegetables in the market.  Although Sarin’s mother never went to school, she had skills in budgeting and managing money for the family. Reth was educated and served as a  soldier in the Non Lol government party until the Khmer Rouge  regime.

The hardships the family endured during this time are hard to imagine. When asked to recall some happy times with his mother when he was young, Sarin replied there were “None because of the war. There were just bombs and screaming and separation from family.’’ Sadly, Sarin’s father and 3 of his siblings were killed in the war.

In 1981 the remaining family members escaped to the Pre Chin Bori refugee camp in Thailand. Sarin was 6 years old at the time. Here they stayed at a pagoda. At age 9, Sarin was one of 160 boys at the refugee camp, to be selected and moved to an orphanage established by a Japanese NGO. It was there that he received an education and learned English. During that time, he saw his family every week and although it was hard to be separated, his mother knew that he was getting the food, education and opportunities that she could not provide.

Reoun chose not to remarry, because in the Cambodian culture, second husbands often do not take good care of children from a previous marriage. Instead, she focused on raising her children alone to ensure they would not be abused or neglected.

Later, she became a Buddhist nun, living in the monastery, cleaning and cooking for the monks and learning about Buddha. This quiet life allows her to refresh her spirit, try to forget past hard times and focus on heaven. Now that she is getting older, she spends much of her time at her daughter’s house, but continues to support the monks, buying food and books for them.

Reoun is very proud of Sarin, her only son, and all that he has accomplished. In Cambodia, one’s station in life is often linked to social connections and the wealth of the family. Because they had neither, she never expected that he would be so successful on his own and be an integral part of a school that would improve an entire community and change the futures of poor village children. Reoun is happy to see him married with two beautiful daughters. She is proud of all her grandchildren and pushes them to continue their education and contribute to the community.

The best advice his mother gave him, says Sarin, is to help your siblings and do good things for society.

Join us in wishing Reoun a Happy Mother’s Day!

Pam Spitler’s mother, Ardoth Kessler, was born in Michigan USA in 1929. She was a wife and mother to three children and worked many different jobs to help her family. In 1965 she experienced a mother’s worst tragedy when her oldest son, Lugene, made the ultimate sacrifice while serving his country during the Vietnam War. Despite this devastating loss Ardoth endured and continued to live her life with kindness and warmth. She moved from Michigan to Arizona where she cared for the elderly as a professional caregiver until she retired.

She was a great mother to her two remaining children and a loving grandmother to her two grandchildren. She loved hearing and reading about all the accomplishments at Spitler School and was so proud of all that the staff and volunteers were able to accomplish. She was a regular donor to the Spitler School Foundation.

Sadly, Ardoth passed away last month on March 26. After her death many of her friends and family made donations totaling over $1,000 to the Spitler School Foundation in her memory.

Danny Spitler’s mother, Nell Rae Spitler, was born in 1923 in the state of Oklahoma USA. Her birthday falls on Mother’s Day this year (May 14) and she will celebrate her 94th birthday. Nell Rae was a dedicated wife and mother to four children.  She was a talented musician and was always expanding her skills and learning. After her children were old enough she returned to college and received her bachelor’s degree. She became a proficient painter, photographer, and lecturer. Her passion was travel, and she visited over 50 countries. She was an adventurist traveler and visited countries like Tibet, Bhutan, New Caledonia, and Cambodia long before they began attracting tourists.

Nell Rae passed along her love of travel and her generous spirit to her children, all of whom are engaged in charitable activities that “give back.” She is very proud of all the accomplishments at Spitler School, and she has been a consistent donor to the Spitler School Foundation.

Please join us in wishing Nell Rae Spitler a Happy Mother’s Day and a very Happy 94th Birthday